Valentine's day is around the corner. Guys, if you read this, it might be useful for you on how to make your women feel special.
In my perspective, buying gifts to girlfriends where they will be easily pleased with the gifts, (even if its a $2 plush toy or DIY V-day cards) only suit school children & teenagers. To make a lady really please on this special day (or any other days) is not by buying those expensive flowers or buying her surprise gift. It's not her birthday that you need to buy stuffs for her. What actually you guys really need to do is to BUY YOUR OWN TIME to actually spend on her, giving her your affection & attention. Note the key words here - "affection & attention".
Women is a very delicate specie. There is a quote, that represent us women on what we expect from men:
"Woman was created from the left rib of a man. Not from his head to top him, nor his feet to be trampled by him, but his side to be equal to him, under his arm to be protected, and near to his heart to be loved"
Show us ladies your affection by saying & confessing you love us (many times). Give us your attention by huggins us, kissing us, holding us, admiring us as much as you can. Motivate us with your kind words. Give us as much of your time. If you are a husband, you married your woman, not married to your work/hobby/friends. Do not neglect us or we will feel emotionally neglected. When we sulk, please coax us. Do not give up, if we still sulk after that 1st coaxing, cause that is the nature of women. We want you to coax more because we want to hear more lovely coaxing words from you. We want to bring out your soft side. We need to be loved. Do not break our hearts as it hurts. Another quote for this,
"The rib bone that was taken from man to form the woman is the crooked one. Don't try to staighten it, cause it will break".
I hope my advise is fruitful, to bring happiness & love in your relationship. Happy Valentine's day. Spread the love.
Love,
Zahn
(PS: You can still buy us gifts.. That is a BONUS! )
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